OK dude,
First, before this goes on too long... I see 3 options for resolving this
1. Refund all my money. You lose the paypal fees here.
2. Refund all my money, which I can return to you to start a new paypal buyer protection, and stay in the group buy. You lose the paypal fees here, still.
3. Front the $45 (I already paid $25 shipping), for the $70 air shipment, and I'll pay you back when I have sufficient proof of the diff being shipped (tracking, and ideally an invoice showing paid).
All of the solutions I have previously suggested have taken notice to, and respected where you would lose money. Thus far I have favored the options where you lose little or no money. Like I've said before, I'm not trying to come out ahead, or cost you any unnecessary money.
The paypal dispute has not been escalated yet, so it is still just between you and me to work it out... it's not like I've filed a law suit against you or something...
I understand... Christmas time, moving, voicemail malfunction, may have all come together creating a period of time where this group buy would stall out. How long would it have been stalled for without someone poking you about it?
you filed a claim without even trying to contact me and see what was going on. Then you came to the forum and stated you filed a claim.
I filed a paypal dispute, because the information you provided, did not match what the vendor provided, and considering your general lack of trustworthiness, and the fact that buyer protection was about to expire, I decided I wasn't wasting another moment waiting for your next excuse about the delays.
The paypal dispute was a formal open channel to get this resolved, not a public shaming. This
was me communicating with you about it, while letting you know that I'm serious about this. I didn't come on here and proclaim I filed a dispute. I came on the forum to call you out, and if everything was handled honestly, and diligently, you would have no problem backing your claims up, and I would have apologized for the misunderstanding. Instead you freaked out about how stressful this is, how you should have never set this group buy up, etc... and were generally unpleasant, and unwilling to come to
any agreement, while using the threat of a refund to cause me to lose money.
...refunding you and you re-sending it so you would not lose you're buyer protection or anything else you would have wanted...As for your diff and me having to pay for it. If I send you your money back I don't have to pay anything extra I had already talked to them about this situation to cover my own ass. So no in this situation the only one losing is you. All the time you've been waiting and the discount you're getting....
Here is a quote from the paypal dispute message center(personal information has been obscured):
"From Buyer - rxxx mxxx1/11/2016 11:53 PST
My phone number is xxxxxxxxxx. I've made a post on contour.org, that you should read. I've spoken to the US distributor for Mfactory, and they assure me there are not any shipping, or manufacturing delays. If I placed an order today, It would ship in 3 days. Not next month. Having said that, We have until Jan 29 to get this settled. I'm happy to wait for the shipment, But I expect the order to be placed asap(if not already), and tracking information sent, with proof of purchase, and order details. Because I'm a cautious person, I will be escalating this claim by Jan 28, if no adequate proof has been received, indicating that my differential is on its way to me.
If I can find good proof that there are indeed shipping and/or manufacturing delays, I think you can issue me a full refund, and I will immediately send the money back to you again, to begin a fresh buyer protection period.
There should be no problem with resolving this claim, unless you are indeed trying to scam me, or you've irresponsibly spent my money on something other than the acquisition of the differential.
Let's first discuss the options here, before making any decision to refund, etc."
I proposed very early on that you refund my money, so that I can send it right back to you to start a new buyer protection period. But I wanted some sort of proof that the orders were placed, and so on, so that I felt comfortable waiting some undetermined amount of time, that could very well end up being 6 months or more. You provided me with an invoice for a $1000 deposit in November, and shipping charges for 4 diffs. This is not adequate. I tried vetting your story through the vendor, but could only tell me that you put in an order for 10 diffs, and a deposit for 6 of them which has since been fully paid for and shipped. They were waiting on you to make a decision on the remaining 4 diffs.
...I offered you my diff out of good faith because you're crying....As for your diff and me having to pay for it. If I send you your money back I don't have to pay anything extra I had already talked to them about this situation to cover my own ass....
If you were to send me your diff, you would have lost the customs charge. further, if you refund my money, you lose the paypal fees, even if I send it right back to you. The solution I offered was for you to front the $50 for expedited shipping, which you would get right back, 1-2 weeks later. This would have cost YOU the least amount of money(actually, none), and resolve the issue in a timely manner. I understand you have a problem trusting a stranger with $50 of your hard earned cash... I'll just stop there....
...So no in this situation the only one losing is you. All the time you've been waiting and the discount you're getting....
I'd imagine you'd have to pay the $225 that you pocketed for over-charging people at the 5-person group buy rate, if the total order fell under 10 people... Maybe MFactory will work with you on that too and keep the group buy rate at 10-person. I don't know... But it's something you should consider.
Has them in stock what are you talking about? I haven't heard anything the first thing you do is this and create a claim through paypal? ...
Seems like this all changed yesterday, 'eh?
Everyone above you has their diffs what do I need to come clean about? Where am I lying what am I hiding?
Well for starters, I know I wasn't notified that we made the 10 person group buy rate, perhaps the other members were. I paid the 5 person group buy rate. I don't have a problem with a group buy organizer pocketing some cash for their efforts... It is a lot of work. But I expect the organizer to be upfront about it. Helping yourself to other people's money, because you "...already put in more work than [you] expected" is dishonest on some level. Despite that, I had no intentions to get that $25 back. I was ready to let it go, but here we are, you called me out, and I'm backing up my claims.