Ok so here is the deal, I like the way my interior looks stock as it is. I'm an old guy and it's my Brides car. What is important is she likes it. I keep trying to fancy it up for her like adding the tilt column, leather seats, and the power windows were so she could open the rear window so the dog could sitck his head out and ride like a dog

(it really is all about him)
I have seen quite a few Tours in the junk yards now and I find that 95-97 trims come in gunmetal or black. All of the 98-00 I've seen are black unless they have been painted.
On my instrument bezel where the fog lamp indicator, traction control, defroster switch, clock, and various screw covers / blank caps are those pieces are not a consistant color. The instrument bezel, HVAC bezel, shifter bezel are all uniform.
I am trying to find more info on that gunmetal gray color so I can get it all looking right. I can't find a ford part number for it. I'm sure you all know that if you contact one of these paint sites and say I need ford #xxxx in a spray can you can get all you want. Whereas if you ask for gunmental gray they just ask for more info and say they don't have it. There is my problem that I'm trying to resolve.
And btw that is pretty much how I painted some of my door parts, and they look good...
Any ideas along those lines?
Thanks for all the in put and if all I get out of this is some conversation then it aint a loss either.